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         More Information VRP: How is it that you think that you don't have to help us out around here? 
VRP: How is it that you think that you don't have to help us out around here? Green: I am frustrated and angry.

I have washed three sinks of dishes and washed and folded three loads of clothes this evening.

Since this afternoon you have been filling the sink with the dishes that you have used and have been stepping over the piles of laundry.

I would like you to tell me if you consider yourself to be responsible for washing any dishes and cleaning any clothes.
The "question-statment" and the inference about what the other person "doesn't think" are VRP. The fuzziness in "help us out" also fosters drama. The Green here is in the Feelings, the Observations, and the Want.


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