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         More Information VRP: Now I feel pressured. 
VRP: Now I feel pressured. Green: I feel frustrated. I think that she was preparing to summarize her remarks and give us her conclusions.
"Pressured," rather than being something someone can "feel" is a thougnt, a Victim thought about what someone or something is supposedly "doing to me."

Similar VRP counterfeit feelings are: I feel attacked; I feel pushed; I feel hassled. To say these and similar judgments and claim that they are feelings is to Persecute those who supposedly are "making me" a Victim and "making me" upset.
The Green here is in two parts: 1) Saying a genuine Feeling word and; 2) What I Think about the speaker's timing and plans.


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