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         More Information VRP: I want you to be nice to the customers. 
VRP: I want you to be nice to the customers. Green: I want you to look up and say, "Hello".
To say, "be nice" to someone is to run the risk of entering into a "should" drama, operating in a paternalistic Persecutor role. This example is Green, because the actions being requested are do-able and specific as to the words requested and the conditions under which they are asked for.


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